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Breaking Free From a Begging Mentality

 Breaking Free From a Begging Mentality - Daniel Cole At some stage in our life, we all live at the expense of others, but the challenge is that many don't seems to really outgrow this stage. They go through life with a "You Owe Me" mentality. They are always at the receiving end in every relationships, always on the lookout for what to get. They present their challenges pathetically to earn cheap empathy. When they are fortunate to meet a person of influence the first they think of is how to be a financial beneficiary of such influence, and these often leads to them not having any genuine, credible relationships around their life because virtually everyone they've met have been chased away as a result of their needful lifestyle. As a child of the Most High, we should not completely live our life at the benevolence of others, such lifestyle does not in any way reflects the true nature of Christ. We are not nomadic, we are not wanderers, we are an embodiment of ...

FRIENDSHIP IS CRUCIAL

  Friendship is Crucial - Daniel Cole Two people can resist an attack that would defeat one person alone. A rope made of three cords is hard to break. Ecclesiastes 4:12 GNB Those who often fall victims of the devil vices are often those he successfully isolate from their spiritual circle, friendship and Christian home, as the verse above reflect. Friendship is crucial as we navigate life. Doing our daily life alone really is the pits. We’re all hungry for MEANINGFUL connection and the kind of relationship where we can raid each other’s fridge and keep no thing hidden. We want to be received as we are now and encouraged to grow into who God created us to be. We find God as we love each other. There is power in presence. In the same way that God is with us, we demonstrate his character and nature when we choose to be with others. Presence provides comfort, care, and a sense of security. It’s choosing to sit down with someone in the middle of his or her journey, an...

Living With Uncertainty

Living With Uncertainty - Daniel Cole   For we do not know... Romans 8:26B Ask any divorced or separated couples if they knew from onset, during honeymoon, "while the love was still young" that just few years down the line they both will be living separately and those vows exchanged at the alter will no longer matter? Of course, they knew not. Ask the student who burn candles all night trying all he could to ensure he doesn't fail those subjects, but on getting the results he didn't meet up with the cut-off mark, if he knew that would be the outcome? Of course not? Ask the 15 years old orphan that life accidentally thrust into parenthood, having to look after his siblings if he knew that was the fate life cut out for him? Of course not. How often have we also in the context of affirming our certainty or uncertainty  ask our partner "Do you love me? " One thing I know for sure is that nothing is for sure. When life hit us with painful ...

FACING OUR FEARS

“FACING OUR FEARS by Daniel Cole   Have you ever walked down a street late at night with little streetlight and people lurking ahead in the distance? This causes fear in us and that fear often makes us change direction. We turn around, going back the way that we came, thinking that the new route will be safer. We walk away from the danger we see in front of us. This is the power of fear. It reroutes us, diverts us, like a spiritual Satnav changing our direction. In this story of walking down a dark street, our fear worked as a survival mechanism and might have saved us from danger, but in our walk with God the enemy uses the same fear tactics to derail us from our destiny. The Bible says the enemy comes to kill, steal, and destroy; walking around like a lion seeking to devour its prey. The enemy uses fear to stop us going where God has called us to go, and stop us from reaching the people God wants us to reach – friends, family, neighbors, and colleagues. It st...

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTES EPISODE 12

Be what you are. This is the first step toward becoming better than you are." -Julius Charles You learn something every day if you pay attention." Ray LeBlond" Plenty of people miss their share of happiness, not because they never found it, but because they didn't stop to enjoy it." William Feather" The day man stops striving to attain perfection in his faith is the day he dies and give not a thing in order to have more. [Quran 74:6] Be wise with speed. A fool at forty is a fool indeed." - Edward Young" The eternal mystery of the world is its comprehensibility. ~Albert Einstein"  Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going."  Every Champion was once a contender that refused to give up." The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek -Joseph Campbell" Rich people have small TVs and big libraries, and poor people have small libraries and big TVs." - Zig Ziglar...

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Spending a large amount of time with someone literally causes you to pick up their habits. Choose your friends wisely." Two things define you. Your patience when you have nothing and your gratitude when you have everything." Intelligent people tend to care less about the opinions of others, they also enjoy being alone because of great sense of self." ~ A.Einstein You become a champion by fighting one more round. When things are tough, you fight one more round." - James Corbett' Choice, not chance, determines your destiny." - Aristotle'  Know your limits... but never stop trying to exceed them."  Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing. –Benjamin Franklin" The darkest hour has only sixty minutes." Morris Mandel" Music is one of the only things in life that utilizes our entire brain. To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also belie...

SURVIVING THE TIMES

SURVIVING THE TIMES As the saying goes, “Change is inevitable and constant.” Change comes in every aspect of our lives, our attitudes, character, intelligence, behavior, actions, reactions, way of live and people actions towards us. Times, Times can be defined as stages in ones or people lives when things are not going well or right. What can cause this? This is a big question that can only be answered by yourself. Why are things not going well for u at the office, home, with your family, friends, colleagues like it used to be? What are u doing wrong? What has changed? Why the sudden change of attitude towards u from your loved ones? Why is your business not making profit again? Ask yourself “What is happening? What is going on?” Rumi said “Anything you are looking for, can only be found inside of you.” This means, whatever answer u need, ask yourself, because only you can answer yourself. Percy Ross once said “You have got to ask. Asking in my opinion, is the world’s most power...

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None of us are immune to temptation. Given the right situation, you and I are capable of yielding. - Nobody holy pass. A teacher affects eternity; he can never tell where his influence stops. ~Henry Brooks Adams" Once we know our weaknesses, they cease to do us any harm." —Georg Christophe Lichtenberg" If your mind isn't clouded by unnecessary things, this is the best season of your life." ~Wu-men" At some point in your life if you're lucky you throw practicality to the wind and start living. ~ Erma Bombeck"" Do the right thing. It will gratify some people and astonish the rest." ~Mark Twain" That some achieve great success, is proof to all that others can achieve it as well." -Abraham Lincoln"  Those who make nonviolent revolution impossible will make violent revolution inevitable." - JFK"  There isn't a person anywhere who isn't capable of doing more than he thinks he can....

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What would life be if we had no courage to attempt anything.  - Vincent Van Gogh If you want your life to be more rewarding, you have to change the way you think." - Oprah Winfrey" Never let the fear of failure outweigh your desire to succeed. A lot of people possess the money to help others, but they lack the pity to help others with the money-Olayinka M A good head and a good heart are always a formidable combination.-Mandela. Morals, values and principles cannot be brought, stolen or exchanged. They are simply passed down by generations- Mandela Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere." Albert Einstein The choices made while you're angry tend to be the decisions you regret the most. When you truly care for someone, their mistakes never change your feelings because it's the mind that gets angry but the heart still cares"  Confidence comes not from always being right, but from not fearing being wr...

THE POWER OF ASKING

The Power of Asking Percy Ross once said “You’ve got to ask. Asking, in my opinion, is the world’s most powerful and neglected secret to success and happiness.” People are afraid to ask because they don’t want to look needy, foolish or stupid. They are afraid of experiencing rejection. There are afraid of hearing the word No. The sad thing is that they’ve actually rejected themselves in advance. They are saying no to themselves before anyone else even has a chance to. Never assume people will not help you until they personally say so. Don’t underestimate the power of asking. Don’t assume that you are going to get a No. Take the risk to ask for whatever you need and want. If they say no, you are not worse off than when you started. If they say yes, you are a lot better off. The universe is filled with endless options for you. Whatever you would like to have is yours for the asking. It can be about relationships, finance, career, freedom or anything. The most important thing is t...

LIFE

LIFE                                                          BY JIMOH OLAYINKA Life! How do things work over here in this place called earth? What are the things that must be done to achieve my heart desires? These are part of the questions I ask myself everyday when I kickback to think and evaluate my life, where I am, things that I have achieved so far in this beautiful world of mine. Life has been tough for me lately, from having problems with my father, to having issues with my siblings, fighting my way through my final year in school to fighting depression. I have been changing a lot lately, I am revolving , seeing life differently , having patience, developing my self-control, having so much confidence when around females, stopped looking down on myself, respecting people a lot and putting so much work into my  profession,...

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OH WOW IT IS NOVEMBER PEOPLE, 2017 IS ALMOST OVER AND I HOPE SOME OF MY QUOTES WILL INSPIRE AND GIVE YOU STRENGTH FOR THESE LAST TWO MONTHS TO ACHIEVE WHATEVER YOUR HEART DESIRES BEFORE THE END OF THIS YEAR The Lord above made man to help his neighbor, no matter where, but with a little bit of luck, when he comes around, you won't be home. Doing what you like is freedom, liking what you do is happiness. If you expect something in return for being a nice person, you aren't a nice person. If you want to be successful, you must respect one rule. Never lie to yourself. Until when u understand the importance of fear in your life, that's when u will know freedom is just an illusion."- Olayinka Mutiu Goodness is the only investment that never fails. Fear is wisdom in the face of danger.. If you are not careful, the world would make u hate yourself, doubt yourself, lose yourself, until you kill yourself.  David didn't beat Goliath by using the same weapons.  ...

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 If you figured it all out today, what would be the point of tomorrow? ENJOY the process of being a work in progress. Enjoy the good moments. Stay positive in the bad. Know that everything will be alright. We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world. " Our attitude towards others determines their attitude towards us. - Earl Nightingale" It’s lovely to know that the world can’t interfere with the inside of your head. - Frank McCourt" A relationship takes TWO people. Not one person being faithful and another acting single." What makes some people important, is not just the happiness that you feel when you meet them but it's the pain you feel when you miss them." Three things that shouldn't be broken: friendships, hearts and promises."   Someone who truly loves you will be angry at you for so many things, but will always stick around."   Never lose yourself l...

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It doesn't matter if you try & try & try again, and fail. It does matter if you try & fail, and fail to try again. -C Kettering" Learning is about looking at things differently, making your life a little better everyday. - Richard Bandler"  The key to confidence is walking into a room and assuming everyone likes you.  I promise you, no one judges me more harshly than I do myself. To know one’s ignorance is the best part of knowledge." - Lao-tzu Our greatest fear should not be of failure, but of succeeding at things in life that don't really matter.  Every scar has a story. Don't be afraid to tell it.  Life is a flower of which love is the honey. - Victor Hugo"  Don’t confuse your path with your destination. Just because it’s stormy now doesn't mean you aren't headed for sunshine."  We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey. - Kenji Miyazawa" You cannot change your destination overnight, but you c...

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A single dream is more powerful than a thousand realities” - J.R.R. Tolkien." Being honest may not get you a lot of FRIENDS but it'll always get you the RIGHT ONES." A business that makes nothing but money is a poor business. - Henry Ford" Be more concerned with your character than your reputation." Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. - Leonardo Da Vinci" The secret of success is consistency of purpose.  -Benjamin Disraeli" Nothing is permanent in this wicked world - not even our troubles." - Charlie Chaplin"  Dream and give yourself permission to envision a you that you choose to be. -Joy Page"  There was a boy who loved a girl, and her laughter was a question he wanted to spend his whole life answering" - N. Krauss, History of Love" Money is the wealthy man's curtain which hides all his defects from the world."  Treat people as if they were what they should be, and you help them become what they ar...

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Isn't it nice to think that tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it yet?” - L.M. Montgomery."  The trouble is not in dying for a friend, but in finding a friend worth dying for” - Mark Twain."  The people that actually try to stay in your life are the only ones you really need" You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear” - O.Wilde" Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. - Martin Luther King"  Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it” - Rumi." All you need in this life is ignorance and confidence; then success is sure” - Mark Twain."  One minute of patience can result in ten years of peace. -Italian Proverb"  Great minds talk about ideas, average minds talk about events, and small minds talk about people...

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All that you accomplish or fail to accomplish with your life is the direct result of your thoughts-  James Allen"  No one can change a person, but someone can be a person's reason to change" - Spongebob." That best portion of a good man's life: his little, nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and of love. -William Wordsworth"  Some people care too much. I think it's called love" - Winnie the Pooh."  Profit is a by-product of work; happiness is its chief product." - Henry Ford Sometimes the smallest things take up the most room in your heart" - Winnie the Pooh." The world is full of magic things, patiently waiting for our senses to grow sharper. - W.B. Yeats" If you can't, you must. If you must, you can. -Anthony Robbins"  Do not listen with the intent to reply, but with the intent to understand. #wisdom"  Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things ...

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTES EPISODE 2

A dreamer is one who can only find his way by moonlight, and his punishment is that he sees the dawn before the rest of the world." There's always something good coming. Remember that. Faith consists in believing when it is beyond the power of reason to believe." Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much." The world of reality has its limits; the world of imagination is boundless. -Jean Jacques Rousseau"  All little girls should be told they are pretty, even if they aren't” - Marilyn Monroe."  Be sure to taste your words before you spit them out." Politics have no relation to morals. -Niccolo Machiavelli No man should bring children into the world who is unwilling to persevere to the end in their nature and education. - Plato"  I am so clever that sometimes I don't understand a single word of what I am saying. " I have discovered that people with money have no imagination, and people with...

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTES EPISODE 1

"You  must learn from the mistakes of others . You  can't  possibly  live long enough to make  them  all  yourself." - Sam Levenson To survive and thrive in this world of ours,we must be able to learn and unlearn things everyday,we learn and unlearn from different people experiences of life. Through my journey on this blog i will be sharing some of my favorite quotes from various great minds, like a great mind once said " motivation is like taking our baths,we need it everyday to refresh our mind and soul. The best way to cheer yourself is to cheer somebody else up” - Albert Einstein.  Success is dependent upon the glands -- sweat glands. - Zig Ziglar"  The truth  is rarely pure and never simple." It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are. - E.E. Cummings" There is no trap so deadly as the trap you set for yourself” - Raymond Chandler." If A equals success, then the formula is A=X + Y and Z, with X be...